I'd like to tell you a little story that happened to me about a year ago. But first, let me introduce myself, my name is John and I am a motivational speaker with extensive knowledge and experience in the area of relationships, sexual intercourse (which includes everything from foreplay up to the "aftermath"), and sexual disorders and problems.
I want to tell you about this one woman I met about 2 years ago. To keep her identity unknown, I'll just call her Mary. I taught a course or two at several universities across the united states. One of the particular courses I was teaching was in regards to the "Sexual Intercourse - Revisted". So moving on, Mary was actually in this course and was fascinated about what I had to say. She came up to me one day and told me she had something "personal" she wanted to talk to me about. She asked me if she could talk to me in private and as a professor, I'm didn't deny her request. I'm sure alot of you reading this is probably thinking...."Ohhh Noo. This can't be good", but I assure you it was very innocent.
So I met up with her the next day and she told me that she had been "trying some new things out". She told me flat out that she had been "trying things" with her new boyfriend. Well, I was kind of shocked as I wasn't really expecting a student would come to me and ask me such a question as "How do you give head?". I looked at her and I couldn't help, but chuckle to myself. Mary seemed quite stunned at my reaction, but I had to assure her that I just thought she came to ask me a "different" question.
Anyways, she came to me hoping I'd give her some valuable tips and I did just that! I know I'm not the right "gender" persay, but I've studied this art inside out. I gave her several tips that I want to share with you today:
1) Don't try to fake something that you're not. Even though you may not be "good", don't let that take your mood down. Just do it!
2) Use your tongue as a weapon. The most sensitive part on a man's shaft is his head. Use you tongue, wrap around it and really concentrate on the head. Swirling your tongue can be quite pleasurable.
3) Although his shaft is in your mouth and it can be very sloppy and slobbery. This in fact is not a BAD thing. The more lubercant the shaft is, the better it can feel
4) The use of your hands can be a huge advantage. Move your hands on his shaft. But, don't forget that you can use both your hands as well as your mouth!